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Much Ado About Tebow

February 9, 2010 · Leave a Comment

Now that the Super Bowl is over (go Saints!), can we talk about the Tim Tebow Super Bowl ad? Listening to the critics the past two weeks, you would have expected a super provocative anti-abortion spot. Instead, we get a cutesy spot that sold precisely two things: (1) motherhood and (2) Tim Tebow. Abortion isn’t even mentioned; Mom Tebow doesn’t even say something like “I had to make a choice, and I chose to keep Timmy.” She just talked about how difficult her pregnancy was. The old Arthur S. DeMoss Foundation “Life: What a Beautiful Choice” ads were edgier. Frankly, I think the most controversial part of the Tebow ad was the Focus on the Family tag at the end. The manufactured controversy over this ad, which probably was related to CBS’s rejection of a sitcom-y ad for a gay dating site (hands meet in bowl of chips, making out ensues), seems out of proportion to what actually appeared on television.

Also, GoDaddy just needs to Go. Enough teasing already.

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My Cancer Story (so far) III: Test Results

January 30, 2010 · Leave a Comment

Just a brief note to let you all know how my test results went on Tuesday. Basically, my doctor was pleased with my results. My CEA number has dropped 90 percent since we started, which means there is less cancer in my system. My liver has shrunk some, and my bloodwork looks decent. Also, there’s no cancer in my lungs.

On the other hand, we haven’t seen much shrinkage of the tumors in my liver. My doctor thinks this is in part because my original scans were 6 weeks old before I even started treatment, so I probably had some growth in the meantime. On the positive side, some of the tumors are looking sickly thanks to the Avastin I’m on–they’re being starved of blood–so hopefully we’ll see some more movement when we scan after cycle #8.

That’s the plan right now. Eight cycles and then scan again. I’m still recovering from #5 last Tuesday.

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My Cancer Story (so far) II: High Scanxiety

January 19, 2010 · 2 Comments

When I wrote part one, I intended this “My Cancer Story (so far)” series to be a regular update about my health and my battle with colorectal cancer. Since it has been almost three months since my initial post, I guess an update is long overdue. Fortunately, there is news.

My chemotherapy started on November 20th, and I’ve now had 4 bi-weekly cycles, plus a week off for Christmas. I go in to Vince Lombardi Cancer Center (yes, that Vince Lombardi) on a Tuesday morning to get my red and white blood cell counts taken, then have a brief meeting with my oncologist, Dr. John Marshall. After about an hour or so, I go upstairs to the oncology department where I’m hooked up to an IV of chemo drugs via the med port in my chest and basically just relax, read a book, or listen to podcasts for the next 4 hours. I go home the same day, where I’m hooked up to the last chemo drug via medical fanny pack for the next 48 hours.

To be frank, I think I’ve handled it quite well. The first session was obviously the worst, as I didn’t know what to expect. I was exhausted–zombified really–and basically passed out for a couple days and lost too much weight (almost 20 pounds in two weeks). Fortunately, the following sessions were much better, I’ve gained some weight back, and I’ve been able to avoid the more annoying side effects like nausea and vomiting with the help of drugs.

High Scanxiety
The reason I wanted to post something this week was that this Friday, January 22nd, I have my first follow-up CT scans since diagnosis. Now the symptoms that sent me to the doctor in September have all but disappeared, but the real proof is in the photographs. So I’m going through now what the folks on colon cancer message boards call “scanxiety” (scan+anxiety). Lots of good work can go for naught with a bad scan.

I’m expecting decent results. My red and white blood cell counts remain decent, my liver markers have improved, and my CEA number (carcinoembryonic antigen–a protein that appears in the blood in response to cancer) is still high but on the way down. On the down side, my doctor heard a wheeze in my breathing on my last visit, so I’m getting a lung scan too. I didn’t get a lung CT when I was first diagnosed, so there’s a possibility I’ve been fighting lung metastases as well for the past three months and didn’t know it.

Anyway, wish me luck. I promise I’ll post the results before May rolls around.

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Not New Year’s Resolutions, New Year’s Stories

January 14, 2010 · Leave a Comment

Related to my last post, see also these two blog posts from Don Miller on creating a story for oneself, rather than just a list of New Years Resolutions bound to fail.

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I See What You Did There: Don Miller’s Latest Book

January 13, 2010 · 2 Comments

Donald Miller is one of my favorite authors (and bloggers). His latest, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years: What I Learned While Editing My Life, is my new favorite of his, and that says a lot. Miller made a name for himself about 6-7 years ago with his memoir Blue Like Jazz, which gained a large following in the under-35, Christian but bored with evangelicalism, politically liberal crowd. Miller’s books are typically written in a rambling, confessional essay-type style, and populated with his strange collection of Christian and bohemian friends from Portland (“Keep Portland Weird” as the city’s merchants tell us). Through his deeply personal writing, Miller has always had the ability to bring his readers to emotional highs as well as deep depressing depths.

Miller’s books subsequent to Blue like Jazz were less successful (though I happened to regard his Searching for God Knows What as his best work), and having achieved a life goal of being a New York Times best selling author in his early 30s, Miller went into a deep funk. Feeling directionless in career and a failure in relationships, he was stuck. He was snapped out of it when two indie filmmakers contacted him about making Jazz into a movie. Skeptical at first, Miller said yes, and what he discovered while putting the film together was that the movie “Don” was a far more interesting character than the real thing. Wanting to know why this was so, he dove into learning screenwriting and character development, even taking the infamous Robert Mckee writers seminar (as seen in the movie Adaptation). What Don learned about good screenwriting and creating a character for film he channels into life lessons, with great results for his own life and hopefully for the readers too. Incited by his film writing experience, he seeks out the father who left his family 30 years prior, inspired by a young woman he wants to impress, he gets himself in good enough shape to hike the Inca Trail, and finally, in the hopes of creating an epic story, he founds a church-based mentoring program for other fatherless boys, and bikes across the U.S. to raise money for freshwater wells in Africa (I remember this and actually donated money at the time).

Like most of Miller’s works, A Million Miles is engaging, funny, and tear-jerking as well. Don, his Portland friends, filmmakers Steve and Ben, and master storyteller Bob Goff will have you laughing at their bizarre antics. Don may be able to draw some tears when he writes about losing his uncle, who served as a father-figure for troubled youth, and about the man losing his wife to cancer. If you’re a writer, you’ll pick up some good tips about creating characters and a compelling narrative. And if you read closely, you’ll see Don has actually structured the book like a screenplay, with three acts, inciting incidents, and positive and negative turns. Clever devil, I see what you did there! (Note also what Don says about the ancient playwrights on comedy vs tragedy and then read the chapter on his uncle’s death again–I see what you did there!). This was a great book to start off the new year. Highly recommended.

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Before and After

January 5, 2010 · Leave a Comment

Michael Spencer, also known as the Internet Monk (iMonk), is one of my favorite web writers on religion. He’s the campus pastor at a Baptist boarding school in Middle of Nowhere, Kentucky, but has built a strong following in the internet due to his writings over the past seven years. I picked up on him maybe 5 years ago and have been reading him ever since.

The iMonk, in his early 50s, was diagnosed with colorectal cancer last month. It had already spread to his brain and he had to have surgery on Christmas Eve to remove it. What a shock that one of my regular internet reads was diagnosed with the same thing I have, only two months later.

Which makes this essay of his, originally published in November 2009, even more remarkable. iMonk captured perfectly the strange “before and after” world those of us facing potentially fatal illnesses live in–even before his own diagnosis–and writes a compelling Christian response. Some select quotes:

Some of us are doing, for the last time, what we think we will be doing twenty years from now.

Some of us are on the verge of a much shorter life, or a very different life, or a life turned upside down.

Some of us are preaching our last sermon, making love for the last time, saying “I love you” to our children for the last time in our own home. Some of us are spending our last day without the knowledge of eternal judgment and the reality of God. We are promising tomorrow will be different and tomorrow is not going to give us the chance, because God has a different tomorrow entirely on our schedule. We just don’t know it today.

And the important part…

Live each day as the day that all of the Gospel is true. Live this day and be glad in it. Live this day as the day of laying down sin and taking up the glad and good forgiveness of Jesus. Live this day determined to be useful and joyful in Jesus. Live this day in a way that, should all things change tomorrow, you will know that the Lord is your God and this is the day to be satisfied in him.

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The Books of 2009: Second Half

January 2, 2010 · 1 Comment

I’m posting my books read list every six months these days. This is a rather short list, for obvious reasons.

Livingston, Gordon. How to Love. My new favorite self-help guru. Though he repeats himself from earlier books in here a bit.

Pinsky, Mark I. The Gospel According to the Simpsons. Recommended. Pinsky himself is not a Christian, but a religion reporter for a Florida newspaper, but he handles the subject well.

Swierczynski, Duane. The Blonde

Swierczynski, Duane. The Wheelman

Veith, Gene. God at Work: Your Christian Vocation in All of Life. This was a re-read. Still one of my favorites on the subject of jobs and finding meaning in them.

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Prayers in the New Year

December 28, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Michael Spencer, also known as the Internet Monk, has been a regular blog read of mine for years and I’ve linked him numerous times here. He gained attention in the wider media earlier this year for his influential article in the Christian Science Monitor about “The Coming Evangelical Collapse.” This article resulted in a book deal, due out in 2010.

The iMonk seemed to be blowing up in 2009, which made it odd when he altogether disappeared from his blog after Thanksgiving. He’s had a host of excellent guest writers but we didn’t hear from iMonk himself. Now we know why–he’s been diagnosed with colorectal cancer, joining Jollyblogger David Wayne and yours truly. And reading through the posts at iMonk’s group blog, the Boars Head Tavern, Spencer seems to have been quite sick before he was finally diagnosed.

So prayers for Michael Spencer and his family in the new year would be appreciated. And if I may be so bold, I’m praying for his quick return to the blogosphere so I can once again read his unique perspective on modern day Christianity and, perhaps, living with a potentially fatal disease.

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Mickey’s Christmas Carol

December 23, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Someone has posted Mickey’s Christmas Carol, which I mentioned in my previous post, on YouTube in three parts. This 25-minute short distills the story down to its essential elements. Check it out:

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Jim Carrey’s A Christmas Carol: Too Much for Kids?

December 21, 2009 · 1 Comment

My family has a Thanksgiving tradition where in the evening, while everyone else is chowing down, we head to the movies. We’d do our turkey thing in the early afternoon, and once everyone was good and recovered, we’d head out for an early evening show. It’s a lot of fun–in contrast with the day following, the mall is empty and dark, and the only thing open is the movie theater. You can get into any movie you want without worrying about a sell out. It’s a tradition we’ve kept alive since at least Home Alone (1990).

This year’s film was the newest adaption of A Christmas Carol, featuring Jim Carrey as Ebenezer Scrooge as well as the ghosts of Christmas Past, Christmas Present, and Christmas Yet to Come. Other well regarded actors, including Gary Oldman, Bob Hoskins, Robin Wright Penn, and Cary Elwes played multiple roles in Robert Zemeckis’s computer-animated adventure. Now I’m a fan of the A Christmas Carol story, particularly of an earlier Disney adaptation, Mickey’s Christmas Carol, a half-hour cartoon adaptation featuring Scrooge McDuck as Ebenezer, Mickey Mouse as Bob Cratchit, and Goofy as the ghost of Jacob Marley. I don’t think the newest adaptation of Dickens’s classic stands as tall as some of the earlier interpretations, but it’s still an enjoyable film. Carrey does a fine job as Ebenezer Scrooge and the Ghost of Christmas Present (I found his Ghost of Christmas Past annoying). Oldman is great as Bob Cratchit. Though he looks kind of like a Lord of the Rings character, he brings the necessary warmth to Cratchit, who must take care of Tiny Tim, and still has the heart to say a prayer of thanks for Scrooge’s meager salary and what it has provided his family on Christmas day. I appreciated the inclusion of some of the classic dialogue, such as Scrooge, when he first sees Marley’s ghost: “You may be an undigested bit of beef, a blot of mustard, a crumb of cheese, a fragment of underdone potato…” The film takes full advantage of its Digital 3D origins to make several sweeping shots of London and the English countryside, though not always to the film’s benefit.

When watching this film, I couldn’t help but wonder if it would be simply too much for kids, say, 5 and under. Or even for older kids who weren’t familiar with the original story. The introduction of Jacob Marley’s ghost, for example, was genuinely scary. It’s a long sequence—Hitchcock would have loved it—that pays off with a creepy ghoul. And the bit with Marley’s jaw (I won’t spoil it) was supposed to have been played for laughs, I think, but felt too macabre or Tim Burtonesque to work. And then when Marley left by the window and we see hundreds of other tortured souls working off their lifetime sins, I was startled myself.

And this says nothing of the whole Ghost of Christmas Yet to Come sequence. From the disturbing death of the Ghost of Christmas Present (Santa Claus) on to Scrooge’s morning awakening, the film takes on a frenetic pace. Scrooge is involved in an overly long, “that only happens in CGI” chase scene with the Ghost of Christmas Yet to Come (Death) and his black horses that simply overwhelms at points. Yes, the Ghost of Christmas Yet to Come is supposed to be scary–he’s even scary in the Mickey Mouse version–but his scariness is in his silence, like with Scrooge at the graveyard, not in how fast his horses can chase you down. There are emotional touch tones in this act, such as when Scrooge figures out why no one mourns him the way the Cratchits mourn Tiny Tim, but they’re nearly drowned out by moments like Scrooge surfing down a London rooftop on an icicle. Maybe today’s youth appreciate an old man getting thrown through several “only in CGI” scenarios more than they do, say, his horror at discovering his maid hated him so much she stole his bed curtains after his death, but I would have appreciated Zemeckis turning the freneticism in this act down a bit.

This newest A Christmas Carol gets 3 of 5 stars for being a beautifully rendered, faithful retelling of the classic Christmas tale, but one marred by darkness and CGI overload.

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